The idea that you have a Soulmate out there, somewhere in the world, who is ideally suited to be with you, is very romantic and hopeful.
Who doesn’t want to believe that we don’t have to walk through life alone, not ever really finding someone who “gets us” and is fully devoted to us.
We come into the world alone and we leave this world alone, but it would be nice to know that during this life we can share it with a companion to our soul; someone who lights our fire and brings us to life, in a way we have never been before.
Often times when we first meet a narcissist, we have that strong feeling of “knowing” that person and the connection we feel is unlike any other. How else do you explain it but to say “this must be my soulmate; the one I have been waiting for.”
Soulmate quickly becomes “Cellmate” when the crazy making behavior begins to turn your once perfect world upside down and inside out. Some say a soulmate relationship can be challenging but this is more than challenging. It is soul destructive!
The danger so many people fall into is not knowing when to call it quits. The soulmate “theory” keeps one holding on, long past the expiration date.
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