Many people ask me about going “no contact” with a toxic, narcissistic parent or sibling. I decided to address this topic in a short video.
The idea that you have a Soulmate out there, somewhere in the world, who is ideally suited to be with you, is very romantic and hopeful.
Who doesn’t want to believe that we don’t have to walk through life alone, not ever really finding someone who “gets us” and is fully devoted to us.
We come into the world alone and we leave this world alone, but it would be nice to know that during this life we can share it with a companion to our soul; someone who lights our fire and brings us to life, in a way we have never been before.
Often times when we first meet a narcissist, we have that strong feeling of “knowing” that person and the connection we feel is unlike any other. How else do you explain it but to say “this must be my soulmate; the one I have been waiting for.”
Soulmate quickly becomes “Cellmate” when the crazy making behavior begins to turn your once perfect world upside down and inside out. Some say a soulmate relationship can be challenging but this is more than challenging. It is soul destructive!
The danger so many people fall into is not knowing when to call it quits. The soulmate “theory” keeps one holding on, long past the expiration date. Continue reading Is the Narcissist my Soul Mate or Twin Flame?
If you love yourself are you a narcissist? Many people are afraid that by developing greater self love and making their needs a priority they are being narcissistic. Kaleah talks about what self love really is and how you can practice self love to overcome the effects of narcissistic abuse.
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In this episode of Pandora’s Box, Kaleah talks about the Self Punishment that happens when we feel we are being punished by a Narcissist, Borderline or other difficult personality. How can you take your power back when being given the silent treatment or being treated badly.
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