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Forgiving the Unforgivable

We’ve all heard that to forgive is divine, but what about those situations that feel nearly impossible to forgive?  What about those people who have treated you in such a way that it feels unforgivable?

Many of my clients talk to me about forgiveness and the first thing I say is “don’t worry about forgiving right now, allow yourself the feelings that you have. Let yourself feel your rage, your anger, your sense of injustice and all those feelings that are flooding to the surface as a result of someone else’s actions or behavior.”

Getting to a state of forgiveness too early can be detrimental to your emotional health, because you are using forgiveness as a tool to suppress the underlying emotions that need to be felt and expressed in a healthy way.  If you don’t deal with your emotional pain, it will go underground and will cause a lot of problems from the subconscious state. Continue reading Forgiving the Unforgivable

Breaking Ties with a Betrayer

Working through Betrayal can be very painful and difficult. Someone you trusted with your heart or with your money, time, energy or anything else has betrayed your trust. Worst yet that person has not taken responsibility for that betrayal and has even blamed you.

I have put together this video as a tool of empowerment to demonstrate that beyond every betrayal, or symbolic death, can be an amazing rebirth of a more powerful you; one who learns to detect a betrayer early on and stay clear. People who betray and justify their betrayal are not our friends. They often will tell us who they are but we don’t listen, or we try to help, or we have too much compassion for them. As we understand ourselves; as we know ourselves on deeper and deeper levels, we begin to trust what we feel and that trust will help us to avoid those who can only care about themselves.

In this video I used a favorite song “Breaking Ties” by Oceanlab and a collection of images I found. Allow it to be a healing tool in your life.

Breaking Ties with a Betrayer

Working through Betrayal can be very painful and difficult. Someone you trusted with your heart or with your money, time, energy or anything else has betrayed your trust. Worst yet that person has not taken responsibility for that betrayal and has even blamed you.

I have put together this video as a tool of empowerment to demonstrate that beyond every betrayal, or symbolic death, can be an amazing rebirth of a more powerful you; one who learns to detect a betrayer early on and stay clear. People who betray and justify their betrayal are not our friends. They often will tell us who they are but we don’t listen, or we try to help, or we have too much compassion for them. As we understand ourselves; as we know ourselves on deeper and deeper levels, we begin to trust what we feel and that trust will help us to avoid those who can only care about themselves.

In this video I used a favorite song “Breaking Ties” by Oceanlab and a collection of images I found. Allow it to be a healing tool in your life.