Part one: How you can be manipulated through your need for attention
by Mark Tyrrell / Uncommon Knowledge
I heard a story once.
Long before mobile phones were a thing, a group of people were driving through a desert in punishing heat. As terrible luck would have it, their vehicle broke down, right there in the baking wilderness.
They were stranded for days and, drop by drop, their water supplies ran out.
Slowly, they began to die of dehydration.
One man eventually become so deliriously thirsty that he succumbed. He drank engine fuel from their vehicle. He drank so much that he died.
Not half an hour later the others, weak and dehydrated beyond belief, were rescued and given fresh water.
The man who drank engine fuel had a need. A real, undeniable need. He felt he was meeting it somehow, but the effects were deadly.
True or not, this tale is a perfect analogy for how emotional needs can make us just as vulnerable and drive us to just-as-crazy actions. And that’s what this series is all about.