Tag Archives: narcissistic abuse recovery

How Our Stories Keep Us Stuck

One of the most common questions victims of narcissistic abuse ask me is “how do I stop thinking about it?”  There are a lot of reasons we get stuck in ruminating about the narcissist and what he or she has done.  Often the behavior you have witnessed is atrocious, even unforgivable as you might see it.  So we are not talking about the behavior here.  We are talking about YOU. What can you do to stop this ruminating cycle of obsession and hyper-focus on the abuser and the abuse?

We don’t often think about how our stories keep us stuck, but this is exactly what happens.  Everybody has a story.  The story might go like this.  “He was having an affair with another woman for the past three years we were together and every time I felt suspicious and ask him questions he told me I was crazy and got really upset with me.  I ended up feeling I was the problem and believed I was just needy and insecure.” Continue reading How Our Stories Keep Us Stuck

Healing Narcissistic Abuse and Finding the True Self Now Available in Print

healing-narcissistic-abuse-large_frontWhen I first began writing books I released my books in E-book only. The demand for E-books is high because people ordering books often want the information “right now!” But there is also a demand for a print book that readers can curl up with on their sofa or in bed at night without the distraction of electronics.

My book “Rebirth; Traversing the Dark Night of the Soul” was my only book available in print, but by popular demand I have decided to print “Healing Narcissistic Abuse and Finding the True Self.” This is a compilation of my many years of knowledge and experience working in the field of narcissistic abuse.

kaleahBecause of the size of this book (over 380 pages), and I am a small, independent publisher, I will need to increase the price to cover the cost of printing, however I am offering this book right now for the same cost as “Rebirth,” which is much smaller.

Healing Narcissistic Abuse and Finding the True Self covers the topic of narcissistic personality disorder, narcissistic abuse, cult behavior, energy, the sociopath, the borderline, the highly sensitive personality, the empath, Codependency, the trauma bond, adult attachment, psychic and emotional cords, shame, karma, forgiveness, the true self and much more.

Please consider ordering your copy of this book today and have an excellent resource for your healing and recovery, on your nightstand.

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Blessings on your journey!

Kaleah

The Power Struggle

February 17th, 2015, 4pm PT, 7pm ET: On Pandora’s Box with Kaleah

tugofwarThe power struggle on an energetic level looks like two energy fields competing to take energy from the other or one energy field trying to take energy and the other trying to keep it.

We often get caught up in the drama’s of relationship including the words spoken; however beneath the surface is most often a power struggle that if recognized can change the dynamics of a relationship.

In this episode of Pandora’s Box Kaleah will be talking about the power struggle; how to recognize it and stop the tug of war that keeps your precious life force energy from going out the window.

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Walking Through Pain

Tuesday December 16th, 2014, 4pm PT, 7pm ET on Pandora’s Box with Kaleah

1506781_728894297194498_5325223279088910895_nWhen it deep emotional pain it is one of the most challenging places to be. Our society has very little to offer someone suffering on an emotional level other than medications and cognitive therapies that change the way you think but don’t address how you feel.

In this episode of Pandora’s Box we are going to delve deeply into that pain for a greater understanding of what it is, what it has come to teach you and how to walk through it.

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Upcoming Tele-Class: Healing Core Pain Beginning January 5th, 2015. Learn More!